Following are articles, bible studies, and recommended books that will equip you in nurturing healthy communication in your relationships, setting boundaries, recognizing and dealing with abuse, identifying identity issues that keep you stuck in a codependent or abusive mindset, and healing from your past.
There is also a Marriage Separation Plan for those who want to save their marriage but need some time apart while they deal with their issues. Without a plan, there is not much hope for progress.
Let Jesus show you how to set boundaries and resolve conflicts. Increase your effectiveness as a communicator.
|Conflict Resolution - Step by step guide|
|Becoming a Good Listener|
|Communication: "You" vs. "I"|
|Boundaries: How Jesus Set Them|
|Boundaries: Phrases to Use With Others|
|Boundaries: Learn a Good Approach|
|Forgiveness - What is it?|
God grieves over abuse. Let God reframe your thinking. Recognize abusive behavior (especially emotionally abuse and neglect), and know how to withdraw from it.
|Abuse: Am I responsible or to blame?|
|Abuse: God's attitude towards abuse|
|Abuse: How the Passive Aggressive Person Abuses Your Rights|
|Abuse: Answering People Who Challenge Your Choices As You Strive to Deal with Abuse|
Become self-aware about the root issues behind you or your loved one's abusive tendencies, co-dependency, or personality disorders and get help destroying them.
|Notes from the book, The Emotionally Unavailable Man - From victim to empowered person.|
|Repairing the Marriage Breach - due to Mother/Son wounds.|
|Identity: Inside the PA Personality - Help with attachment issues and abusive roots.|
Marriage Separation Plan- for those who want to save their marriage, but need some time apart. Without a plan, growth is unlikely and chaos may reign.
|Marriage Recovery: Separation Plan|