Letting Christ Transform You From The Inside Out
Edward Fudge is a Christian scholar, author and Bible teacher living in Houston, Texas, who has been a pulpit preacher, pastor/elder, editor, publisher and, since 1988, a practicing attorney. He was raised in the Stone-Campbell “Restoration Movement,” and he has lived most his life in the Churches of Christ, in which he presently serves. From 1975-82, he was pastor of a small nondenominational church called “Elm Street Church.”
Edward runs a blog called gracEmail. It is a thoughtful, seasoned, informed, spiritual internet column — usually no more than four paragraphs long. A gracEmail might answer a biblical or other spiritual question asked by a subscriber, present a teaching from scripture, give a book notice or review, a devotional or meditation, or commentary on current events.
His website is edwardfudge.com. Here are some of his thoughts on baptizing children.
A scholarly  minister writes, “I am leading a study this summer with five other families,  all having children who have expressed an interest in baptism or a desire to be  baptized. The children range from seven to 13 years of age. What are your  thoughts on this subject?”          
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                        On  this question, gracEmail readers (like Christians for the past 16 centuries),  do not all share the same understanding. I would like to call attention first  to a few historical details. Although some believe they see infant baptism implied  in the New Testament, it explicitly originated among early Roman Catholics who  believed, in an era of very high infant mortality, that no person could be  saved without water baptism. Today, however, many Roman Catholics are returning  to immersion of believers, which they describe as baptism’s original form. And  evangelical conviction has permeated some Roman Catholicism, especially in the  United States and particularly through the charismatic movement.
                        Lutherans  and Anglicans emphasize that baptism does not save apart from faith, but retain  the practice of baptizing their own infants. Methodists and other Wesleyans  continue the Anglican practice and, officially, the same theology, although  many of them practically view infant baptism more as a dedication and a  parental promise to rear the child in the Lord.
                        Reformed  or Calvinistic Christians baptize their babies to signify that they are part of  the covenant community, much as circumcision identifies covenant males while in  infancy among the Jews (Gen. 17:9-14). Yet some Reformed theologians from Karl  Barth to Paul K. Jewett have questioned infant baptism, noting that the new  covenant expects a personal faith-response as a prerequisite for admission into  the believing community.
                        During  the Reformation, the Anabaptists insisted that baptism was only for professing  believers and that one did not become a Christian automatically by birth into a  “Christian nation.” This doctrine directly challenged the state churches of the  Catholics, Lutherans, Calvinists and Anglicans, which often used secular power  to persecute to death those who taught it. (In retrospect, we can suggest that  the fatal heresy of the Anabaptists — whose name meant “Re-baptizers” — was as  much political as theological).
                        Churches  today practicing believer baptism include the Brethren and Mennonites (usually  by pouring), Baptists of all kinds, Restoration Movement (Churches of Christ,  Christian Churches and Disciples of Christ), Adventists (Advent Christians and  Seventh-day Adventists), many Pentecostals and most charismatic and Bible  churches. With the passing of time, however, the age at which these churches  have been willing to regard their children as believers, and therefore as  candidates for baptism, has fallen lower and lower.
                      
A scholarly  minister writes, “I am leading a study this summer with five other families,  all having children who have expressed an interest in baptism or a desire to be  baptized. The children range from seven to 13 years of age. What are your thoughts  on this subject?”
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                        I  was discussing the topic of Christian baptism several years ago with the late  Professor F. F. Bruce, whom I admired immensely and who kindly contributed  forewords to two of my books. The most likely path to accord on the action of  baptism, surmised the great commentator, will not be through focusing on the  mode itself but rather by reflecting on the meaning of the rite. Baptism’s  meaning also provides the best light regarding the appropriate age for  baptizing children of believers, it seems to me.
                        The  New Testament specifically reports the baptisms only of repentant believers.  Those who baptize babies say they are not surprised, since the New Testament  records only first-generation converts. I consider it significant, however, that  Jesus connects baptism to the Gospel (Matt. 28:18-20; Mk. 16:15-16), and that  the apostles and first evangelists regularly relate it to repentance and faith,  which the gospel intends to elicit (Lk. 24:47 with Acts 2:38; Mk. 16:16; Acts  8:12-13; 10:43, 48; 11:17-18; 16:14-15; 16:31-34; 18:8; 22:16; Gal. 3:26-27;  Eph. 4:5; Col. 2:12; Heb. 10:22).
                        If  one sees baptism as expressing personal repentance and faith, by that act  acknowledging and personally claiming the good news that Christ died for  sinners, one tends to conclude that baptism is for persons who are old enough  to experience and to express those heart responses. All that Scripture says on  the topic seems consistent with that understanding and I know nothing in  Scripture which rules it out.
                        Add  to that the fact that repentance and faith are God’s gifts, fruit of the Holy  Spirit’s regenerating work in one’s heart, and the plot thickens, as the old  saying goes. Children do not automatically believe at a particular  chronological age — which we sometimes call “the age of accountability,” but  which the Bible never mentions anywhere. We look, therefore, not for certain  birthdays but for evidence of God’s activity.
                        When  a child feels conviction of sin, expresses a need for Christ, and declares  trust in Jesus’ atonement for personal redemption and forgiveness, we may  conclude that the girl or boy is prepared to be baptized. A catechism class  might draw out such comments, or even suggest or encourage them, but it might  also convey external expectations or generate peer pressure which substitute  for God’s work in the heart. That does not mean such a class is inappropriate —  only that it is not a perfect solution.
                        In  the end, nothing can take the place of Christian parents who model faith and  nurture it in their own dear children. Such parents, who pray regularly with  and for their young, and who discuss spiritual realities in the course of daily  life, will not have difficulty recognizing saving repentance and faith when it  appears. When that occurs, they can guide their children to express these  heart-responses to the gospel by baptism in water, in obedience to the Lord and  Savior Jesus Christ on whose atoning accomplishments we totally depend from  first to last.
“Father Paul,” a gracEmail subscriber and Roman Catholic  priest from Pennsylvania, tells me I am confused concerning infant baptism.  Even if it is not explicitly found in the New Testament, he explains, it is “a  precious apostolic tradition,” part of the oral teaching which the Apostle Paul  equated in authority with apostolic writings (2 Thes. 2:15). Augustine (5th  century), Origen (3rd century) and Irenaeus (2nd century) all attest to the  practice, and Polycarp (born 1st century) might have been baptized as a baby.  “I hope you can now respect the Catholic view,” Father Paul admonishes. “It is  apostolic.”
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                        Indeed the church fathers  make plain that infant baptism began as early as the second century after  Christ. That is 200 years sooner than I previously suggested, and I am happy to  make the correction. As a Protestant and an evangelical, however, I still  consider it 200 years too late. Father Paul claims that infant baptism rests on  apostolic authority, but the first person I can find who made that claim was  Origen of Alexandria in the third century.
                        The “apostolic tradition”  which the Apostle Paul commends is the core of Christian truth handed down by  the Apostles themselves (1 Cor. 15:1-4; 1 John 1:1-4; Jude 3). Not everything  handed down from ancient times is authoritative, however, as Jesus had also to  remind the Jews (Matt. 5). I know no scriptural or historical reason to believe  that the Apostles passed on their unique authority to a chain of successors —  although I am personally awed by the historical continuity which those churches  with “apostolic” bishops do represent. There is something to be said for deep  roots.
                        One primary reason for  collecting and preserving various writings into the Bible was to provide a  permanent standard, recognized as apostolic in authority, by which teaching  could be measured. We therefore speak of the “canon” or “rule” of Scripture —  it is a measuring stick for testing oral tradition, as well as all dreams, visions,  revelations and prophecies claimed to be divine in origin.
                        I have no difficulty  acknowledging the tradition of the universal church as one basis of authority —  so long as it remains under Scripture and subject to testing by it. You need  not worry that I lack respect for Catholic views. I appreciate full well the  heritage and gifts of the undivided Church of the first several centuries —  including the Apostles Creed, the eucharistic liturgy, and the Bible itself.
“God calls children  blessings, in Psalm 127 and in many other texts,” writes a Christian sister.  “Why, then, don’t we want to have them? Or why only one or two? Are modern-day  babies not also a part of God’s plan?” 
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                        Indeed, children are  entrusted to us as gifts from God. However, we need not forget that the Old  Testament people of God lived in extended families in agrarian and  semi-agrarian societies. Childlessness was socially undesirable, for children  (especially males) not only constituted needed workers but also the “social  security” for aged parents. I know no reason why we should think those people  were unaware of family planning by “natural” means or that God frowned on such  foresight.
                        Jesus suggested that one  should not go to war or plan a construction project without counting the cost —  although winning a war or building a house both depended on God’s favor and  blessing. Should we think it less prudent to combine fiscal stewardship with  planning a family? Of course, the conclusions a couple reaches are their  business and God’s alone, and ought not be second-guessed or judged by others  who have no responsibility in the matter.
                        If we entrust our families to  God — in planning, rearing, and teaching — he will certainly guide and provide  in that area of life as well as in any other. We parents learn much about God’s  love as we deal with our children, and children learn much about God’s  fatherhood through the example of godly parents. May your house be filled with  his Presence and his abiding peace.
The above thoughts on Baptism were copied to this site from  edwardfudge.com on October 20th, 2016). 
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